Last evening was nice, going by my usual Sunday standards... Spending time with a friend at Cafe Coffee Day sipping s(h)ame old Cappuccino. We discussed almost everything; food, drinks, spelling and pronunciations, job etc. Suddenly my friend asked me what makes me special?
Well, it's a BIG question. I always thought, I'm a very special person, and a lot of things that I die to see in others are in me. Am I flaunting?
2008, unlike all the astrology sites claimed, has not been a hunky-dory year in last 14 days. So, I gonna list down the best qualities in me, as a 'feel-good' factor, and I know my post won't be used for matrimonial purposes :) And I must show the flip sides of having those 'qualities'
Being candid: Not the best thing to be! You will be cheated almost all the time. You will feel terrible, but then old habits die hard, and you would remain candid forever, and u'll be cheated forever too :(
Understand everyone: Should not, why? Because when you understand everyone, or pretend to understand them to make them feel better. There comes a time when people start thinking you were born to nod your head.
Always say 'Yes': Don't say yes, unless you have in abundance. Some will go to 'coma' when u are in need.
When u stand by them: Naturally you expect them to stand by you. (Unless you are God) and would be hugely disappointed to see them joining hands with your 'trouble-makers'.
But heck! 'Imwhatiam', I would still want remain 'special' with being candid, wish to understand everyone, always want to say 'yes' even when I don't have and will stand by them. So, I have decided to keep away those who have the potentials to make me un-special in the future.
Well, it's a BIG question. I always thought, I'm a very special person, and a lot of things that I die to see in others are in me. Am I flaunting?
2008, unlike all the astrology sites claimed, has not been a hunky-dory year in last 14 days. So, I gonna list down the best qualities in me, as a 'feel-good' factor, and I know my post won't be used for matrimonial purposes :) And I must show the flip sides of having those 'qualities'
Being candid: Not the best thing to be! You will be cheated almost all the time. You will feel terrible, but then old habits die hard, and you would remain candid forever, and u'll be cheated forever too :(
Understand everyone: Should not, why? Because when you understand everyone, or pretend to understand them to make them feel better. There comes a time when people start thinking you were born to nod your head.
Always say 'Yes': Don't say yes, unless you have in abundance. Some will go to 'coma' when u are in need.
When u stand by them: Naturally you expect them to stand by you. (Unless you are God) and would be hugely disappointed to see them joining hands with your 'trouble-makers'.
But heck! 'Imwhatiam', I would still want remain 'special' with being candid, wish to understand everyone, always want to say 'yes' even when I don't have and will stand by them. So, I have decided to keep away those who have the potentials to make me un-special in the future.
Those white orchids are for my dearest friend's mom and her good health.
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Every individual is unique. What makes you special is when you actually prove that you are unique
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